(It's as easy as #1, #2, and #3)

Hey there: If you already received a message, this goes for you too.

#1. Sending Your Message

It all starts when you send a SecretAdmirer email message to someone you like, by filling out the form on our "To Send" page.

The message is anonymous: the person who receives it doesn't know who sent it. The return email address will always be cupid@secretadmirer.com". (By the way, if you need to find someone's email address, we'll show you how when you get to it.)

The SecretAdmirer message you send will look like this:

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to: "ThePersonYouLike@email.com" (or whoever)

from: cupid@secretadmirer.com

subject: You Have a SecretAdmirer (this isn't junk mail)

message: 

This message has been sent to you by a SecretAdmirer! (No Joke: 

Your SecretAdmirer is a real person, maybe a friend or colleague, 

who knows your email address.)

Is the feeling mutual? To find out if the person who sent you this 

message is someone you like, come to 

http://www.SecretAdmirer.com.  

Good Luck!

(By the way, replying to this email won't work. You have to come to  

SecretAdmirer.com to play. And it's free.)

*** SecretAdmirer.Com --- The Electronic Cupid ***

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#2. The Response

When the person receives your anonymous message, they'll be flattered, and kind of curious. But there's only one way for them to try to find out who sent it.

They have to send an anonymous SecretAdmirer email message of their own. So they'll come here and do just what you did: they'll send one (or a few) to someone (or everyone) they like. The message they send will look the same as the one shown above.

#3. The Match

If all goes well, the person they send a message to will be you. At that point, the SecretAdmirer database will recognize that we've got a match. A match occurs whenever two people send SecretAdmirer messages to each other.

We'll automatically email you both the good news, in the form of a match message. The match message will reveal your identities to each other, and inform you both that your feelings are mutual.

The match message you receive will point you to a Web page that looks like this:

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Congratulations!  "ThePersonYouLike@email.com"  is 

your admirer too! 

If your admirer filled out an optional match line:

By the way, "ThePersonYouLike@email.com" says: 

"I guess you noticed me after all. Call me at 555-1234."

Our lips are sealed.

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The rest is up to you. In other words, romance just got easier. When you send a SecretAdmirer message through SecretAdmirer.com, your identity only gets revealed when you match with someone.

That's about it. Ready? Send your own SecretAdmirer message.